"As we learn to bear the intimacy of scrutiny and to flourish within it, as we learn to use the products of that scrutiny for power within our living, those fears which rule our lives and form our silences begin to lose their control over us."
- Audre Lorde (Sister Outsider)
On interacting with Shrigs
I don't really think about my own boundries much, but I'll politely tell you if you've stepped over any (unless you're a bit of a dickhead then I'll probs do an angry)
🙅 no using ablest language
🙅 no making non-lewd conversations lewd
💅 you can thirst slide into my DMs but if I don't reciprocate get over it and don't make it weird
💅 unsolicited advice on my behavior is a-ok
💅 CW things as I would if you're in my replies, in fairness to my followers
Here's We're The Ones by Fold, because I want everyone to listen to it: https://fold.bandcamp.com/album/were-the-ones
Here's Nihiloxica by Nihiloxica because !!: https://nyegenyegetapes.bandcamp.com/album/nihiloxica
Here's Adult Lessons by drembot because @kiki made it and is well worth a listen: https://drembot.bandcamp.com/album/adult-lessons
Here's Without the Eyes by CLT DRP because it was my album of 2020 and will tear your actual face off: https://cltdrp.bandcamp.com/album/without-the-eyes
Here's the debut solo release from Maybeshewill's drummer and friend Jim Collins that he's too shy to promo so I'll do it for him 'cos it's good: https://letmehearshyness.bandcamp.com/
Here's Farai's Rebirth, 'cos it's mesmerising to me every time:
Here's Her Name is Calla's Animal Choir 'cos I'm in the "thanks" section of their final album above their regular tour manager's name which is hilarious to me because I did nothing to earn it: https://hernameiscalla.bandcamp.com/album/animal-choir
@Shrigglepuss@godforsaken.website The effects of Vergonha (the systematic destruction of regional languages and dialects in France) are still felt today. Speaking in a regional accent is often viewed as crass and trashy, and often seen as a valid reason not to take someone seriously.
Basically, policing how people speak is yet another tool of oppression.
English dialects and accents are so vastly diverse, and none of them are "correct", "proper" or "good", putting subtitles into media only for specific accents is so chastising. Mini-rant over, anyway. As you were
I got this 12" on a whim (it's physically beautiful with an etched D-side btw), it's the gift that keeps on giving. If you're after a cross of choir music and post-pop or whatever you'd call it have a spin! Here's the opening track x
🎵 K Á R Y Y N - EVER 🎵
My grooming routine kinda.. Isn't any more