periodic reminder that there are people #onhere who are allowed to get away racist, colorist, anti-black bullshit because they're insulated from consequences by a group of people who refuse to address their own low-level shitty behaviour while claiming to be anti-racist
who deal with any effort to draw attention to this with handwaving, equivocation, deflection and bullying
fedi/personal meta 1/3
since the turn of the year i was getting progressively turned off by the fediverse
this was in part due to my own worsening mh but also after seeing the same cycles repeated over and over
so many times PV called out bad actors and got slammed, or worse, got dragged into conversations they weren’t even a part of just to get slammed for calling people out
i didn’t know what to do, so i did nothing
and i knew that made me part of the problem, so i slipped into solipsism
hello! i'm Ciarán/kiki, nonbinary boy living in the northwest of ireland with my wife Mairéad
i've been floating around the fediverse since august 2018, trying to unlearn all my decades of white-cishet-man training
i love music, film, photography - i also love talking about philosophy/social theory but it's a while since i've been deep into reading it
happy to chat and make friends with folk on their own journey to understanding
looking forward to a godforsaken life
intro - communication notes
will block for racist, anti-black, colorist, ableist, transmisic, homomisic, or any prejudiced talk – zero tolerance if you’re called out and refuse to acknowledge/change
i’m an anxious person so unless we interact regularly i’ve probably reworded any message/reply to you at least 5 times
i am not flirty/forward, so if any response potentially reads that way, you can assume it’s not intended that way – also i get really uncomfortable if i feel i’m being flirted with
intro - projects
i make music under the name drembot: https://drembot.bandcamp.com/
new album is €5 but hmu for a free download code as i still have loads, other bits are free/pay what you like
also on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5PjdfdGAzsxgAX3GFuMWR4
i sometimes do music/sound design for my friend John's story podcast: https://www.yarnpodcast.com/
i also work on my wife's wedding photo/video business - love to celebrate the love so get in touch if you're getting married: https://www.remaininlightphotography.com/
cat: mmm... bowl of fresh clean water? nah, I'm good
also cat: i prefer to flip over the bowl so i can lick it off the floor, please take note
also cat: toilet water is so good, pro tip- always go for the toilet if you see it is open
also cat: just out of the shower? mind if i get some of that moisture off your toes?
also cat: there's nothing like the condensation on a cold glass for refreshment tbh
also cat: ooh, rusty radiator water in a dirty bowl? my favourite!
So im trying to watch this video on youtube about maria lugones' work, and frankly, it's hard to engage with the work.
bc it operates in tow w the erasure of actual lived experience of specific racialized bodies.
the need for ppl w privilege to avoid discussing it, not centering themselves in the discourse & on top of that telling Blk/Indi ppl of color, that they are violent or committing an act of violence towards the privileged members of their communities is a constant tacit.
hey, so, on this particular Black Friday, consider putting your money where your mouth is and donating to black transgender people. even tiny amounts make a measurable difference in the lives of people who've got it tough: https://blacktrans.org/donate/
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Found out today that @guerrillarain and I share the same birthday so Sagittarius season is officially in full swing now the coolest ones are that little more elder 😎
some grooves to get you going for the weekend
Dur Dur Band - Yabaal
Sorry to employed people but I won’t be taking part in Buy Nothing Day because discount days are the only way I’ll be able to afford yuletide presents for people this year. Perhaps instead of passively trying to fight capitalism by not buying things and hoarding your money you could actively help people by donating it
you can also check out this birdsite thread with cool indigenous creators and support them while getting good Content!
and donate to a Navajo and Hopi COVID relief fund here:
You can donate to help homeless two-spirit and trans indigenous peoples here:
nonbinary, bisexual, 30s, irish, white, hiding in the countryside
making music as drembot
godforsaken.website is a uk-based mastodon instance boasting literally thousands of posts about bumholes and UNESCO world heritage sites