Katherine @katherine@godforsaken.website

Hey, I’m Katherine! I’m a welsh, nonbinary, lesbian-bi shaped person with a big heart. I’m fluent in English and Welsh and have bits of experience with German, Croatian, and Polish

I’m an enthusiastic but inexperienced cook/baker, I love insects and being outside and taking care of people

I love talking to people On Line but please note I am a fairly anxious person with ocd - I might drop conversations suddenly or shy away from interactions if feeling bad. I don’t mean to be unfriendly!

I’m a rape survivor who has a history of being sexually harassed by people I trust. If you’re replying to me then please cw this topic accordingly so I don’t get a shock!

I’m fine with explicit, intimate, or joking conversations about sex, but please keep in mind I’m a person first and not a sexual object.

Please don’t ask me to post selfies.

Please don’t refer to/think of me as afab or amab, transmasc or transfemme.

Thank you! 💜🐛

free at last

(that’s me)

katherine

the only reason I ever install MMOs is to fuss about with the UI for two hours and then decide I don't want to play them

I've gotten this far in life without knowing what a "saving throw" is and I intend to keep it that way

not that impressed with people who cum during sex. you're not impressing anyone. get over yourselves.

saying this again because I cannot stress enough: if this responsibility is too much for you, you CANNOT continue to put them in danger of relapse or otherwise triggering them.

There is no shame in admitting that you cannot do this for them, especially in contrast to the danger that you are potentially putting them in otherwise.

This all applies to other substance issues too, as well as mh conditions with material triggers such as eating disorders.

When someone we know trusts us with the information that they have serious problems with alcohol, they telling you what their triggers are. They are telling you that it is not safe for them to be put in the same place as alcohol. They are telling us that if we cannot put their needs before our desire to drink in their presence, then we aren't safe to be around and the only responsible thing we can do is remove ourselves. This is VITAL, *alcoholism kills*.