meta, drama, probably the only thing I'm going to say on this issue
If you see someone doing something bad, call them out.
It doesn't have to be publicly, but it can be.
If you see someone who is working to fix a problem and hasn't fallen back into the same problem for a long time, don't call them out for the problem.
If you blame someone for a problem they are actively working to fix, you are the problem.
an open letter to the person who's thinking about speaking out, but is afraid:
I understand that you are afraid, but also promise that I will believe you and do everything in my power to help you. Furthermore, I acknowledge that I have been guilty of avoiding ""drama"" when it's inconvenient to me, and I promise to do better. I have a mild amount of clout, and I wanna use it to defend victims, not defend it at their expense.
Masto should be a place where we can speak out. I'm gonna make it so.
Tall, fat, Northern communist.
29. From Manchester with love.
She/her. Taken/monog. Masters student.
Here to make friends 💚
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